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But what if I agree with it?

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Sparks wrote:
But what if I agree with it?
Then don't. I'm sure you're not the only one 
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The Stupak Amendment overturns a difficult and delicate compromise that has held firm for decades: Women can use their own private funds for legal reproductive health care procedures, but federal funds cannot be used for abortion except in cases of rape, incest, or to protect the life of the mother.
The Stupak Amendment discriminates against women by taking away health coverage they already have — and tells women who participate in the new health insurance exchange that they can’t even use their own funds to buy a policy that includes abortion coverage.
The Stupak Amendment is discriminatory, extreme, and just plain wrong.
The removal of rights and control from the individual should never be supported.. in a progressive, modern country like the USA or anywhere else, for that matter.
No one is a 'fan' of abortion... but some ARE fans of personal choice and freedom.
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My 1st comment just flame bait but in all honesty I do think their needs to be tighter limits on abortion. Many women have too cavalier an approach to it.
Men need to man up and be safer about it and Women need to be more proactive and less retroactive.
Actions have Repercussions

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People I work with wive's, former classmates, and Friends girlfriends

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I've been around 48 years and I haven't met a woman yet who just up and decides to abort a baby like getting her nails done. I have been through the abortion process with a friend (it's chronicled in a thread around heres somewhere I'm sure). Do you know about the process? And maybe I'm not clear on your definition of "cavalier." Enlighten me.
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Sparks wrote:
My 1st comment just flame bait
we know. Cin has more grace than to fall for it.
Sparks wrote:
but in all honesty I do think their needs to be tighter limits on abortion.
so, you think there needs to be tighter limits on something that has no effect on you or your life and only effects a subset of society that you happen to not be. Its easy to make rules for OTHER people, huh?
Sparks wrote:
Many women have too cavalier an approach to it.
this is an opinion, not a fact.
An opinion, i might add, that has nothing supporting it... no first hand experience and no objective measurement. It is merely a broad, accusatory and unsubstantiated statement.
Sparks wrote:
Men need to man up and be safer about it and Women need to be more proactive and less retroactive.
This could be true about great many things in life. simply saying "people need to be better" is hardly insightful or useful.
Sparks wrote:
Actions have Repercussions
Yes, like having to get an abortion for an unwanted fetus. That is a possible repercussion.
..or the repercussions of stating your opinion on the internet where other people can comment on it.
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Like you said, actions have repercussions. all of them, but when is it your business to decide what actions are available and why do you get to choose that which you feel is best in your opinion? Just because you think it's wrong? Because it's immoral? It's unsafe? It's a luxury like doing nails or hair? It's not your business to restrict the rights of others (and don't even start on the baby having rights, because until it has a heart and functioning brain it's a tumor, ie mass of tissue/cells)....it is your business to have an opinion about them, but that doesn't entitle you to oppress anyone.
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MizPhoenix wrote:
until it has a heart and functioning brain it's a tumor, ie mass of tissue/cells
Hmm.. that might not be the best delimiter of tumor-ness...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prenatal_development
i think medically and legally, that week 10 is the milestone that most consider the difference between a 'lump of cells' and a viable fetus.
that said... around the 25th week is when the fetus even has a real shot at being viable outside the womb. Some might consider that the fetus becomes a 'baby' at around this time.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Prena … _table.svg
it is my personal opinion (that happens to mirror Roe v. Wade) that the further along in the pregnancy the fetus is, the more consideration it deserves, as far as abortion is concerned. In other words, i have very little problem with an abortion performed in the 1st trimester, i think consideration should be used in the 2nd trimester and one should have a very good reason for requesting/performing an abortion with a 3rd trimester fetus.
That said, that is all merely my opinion and i do not, nor would i, impose it on a woman in that situation.
Life is not digital... it is not either there or not there. it is an unbroken line of life, from child to mother/father/progenitor going back about 3.5 billion years to self-replicating amino acids. the question of 'when does life begin?' is a fallacious one. We shed, destroy, kill, expunge and waste living cells all the time. Hell, considering the capacity of stem cell technology, any ONE of our cells has the potential to become a person.
The question should be "when does an abortion cause an unacceptable amount of suffering?".
because i base my morality on the concept that suffering is bad, i gauge the amount of immorality of an action based on how much suffering it causes. Therefore, the more capacity something has for suffering, the more consideration it deserves, morally.
I'll hit a rock. it is amoral.
i'll kill/eat a chicken. the amount of suffering it feels is not over my threshold of concern... i gain more than it loses.
I'll not torture a human child or adult. There is no conceivable gain that would offset the amount of suffering that would cause.
A zygote is incapable of suffering. it is not aware, a person or anything more than a clump of cells that have the potential of becoming an adult human being. A fetus has a human-like form and structure, both internal and external. A prenatal baby can react to stimuli.. be it sound, touch or even pain. A newborn is even more 'deserving' of consideration because it is a stand alone entity, however weak and dependent. ...the scale continues to a fully aware and sentient person.
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I still believe that there should be allowed abortion even if they get to 32 ...years old.....just my two cents anyways.....
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Hey Sparksie, I really would like to find out your answers to my questions above. I'm not out to "spank" you or anything (unless of course you're into that kind of thing). I'm just curious as to how you came about your conclusions.
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http://www.msmagazine.com/Fall2009/stup … utrage.asp
"Our medical experts have determined that your life was not in danger and you could have carried the pregnancy to term. And, by the way, you owe us $9,000.”
Her voice breaking, D.J. Feldman, a Washington, D.C. federal employee, recently spoke to the press about her struggles with her insurance company after she aborted a much-desired pregnancy because of a fetal diagnosis of anencephaly (the absence of a major portion of the brain, skull and scalp). The insurance would only cover abortion in the case of rape, incest or a threat to her life, so the fact that if Feldman had continued the pregnancy, it would have been both physically and emotionally grueling—resulting either in a fetal demise, a stillbirth, or a live birth of a newborn who would quickly die—had no effect on the insurance company’s decision.'
another cavalier woman. they're fucking everywhere.
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